Thursday, January 31, 2008
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
It's Finally official -- FPU is ready to start again
Baseball & Life -- Part 1 -- NO EXCUSES
This is part 1 of a 9 part series on baseball and life. These principles have been around for some time in various forms and formats. This will be my presentation and perspective on them. I love the game of baseball and I think that it can teach us well. It is no mistake that the series starts with this principle. It is not only something that is quite lacking in today's world, it is foundational to building upon and being successful in other areas of life:
NO EXCUSES
Do not blame teammates, umpires, coaches, fans, or the position of the sun in the sky for your performance. Take responsibility for what happens on the field. Be a stand up individual, make no excuses, and refuse to use the excuses that others might offer you. Excuses get in the way of learning because mistakes are denied. Be accountable. Remember that you are not expected to be a perfect performer. No one is. Baseball is not and easy game to play.
One of my favorite things to remind my teams as I coach is that in baseball the very best professional hitters FAIL 6 or 7 times out of every 10 times to bat. Baseball is a hard game; life is hard to win at as well. The best way to become successful is not to avoid going to the plate. It is to be as prepared as possible, go out and give it your best effort, accept and make no excuses about the results, and to review and learn from each trip to the plate (even the ones where you hit it out of the park). Every time there is a play in the field you should review and ask if you were in the right position, moved to the right position, gave full effort, and what could make it better next time. Don't beat yourself up when the ball takes a bad hop but do not fail to learn for the next ball.
Winners take ownership of all of their decisions and actions; good or bad, not matter the result or consequences. Our inability to do that robs us of learning and make us appear like poor sports. This is however, not a new phenomenon. Just three chapters into the Bible, we see it come into play...
6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. 7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.
8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the LORD God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the LORD God called to the man, "Where are you?"
10 He answered, "I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid."
11 And he said, "Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?"
12 The man said, "The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it."
13 Then the LORD God said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." -- Genesis 3:6-13
The decision is ours. Will we stand up and be responsible or make excuses about all of the situations of life. It is not hard to look around and find "reasons" why we fail in our finances, love, school, weight, job, salary, you can add to the list. Whatever the situation, remember that where you are now is the result of all the decisions and actions that you have made to this point. Don't like where you are? Take responsibility, make the needed changes, and move forward.
When the baseball season gets started in a few short weeks watch the players closely. See which ones make excuses for the bad call, bad hop, bad timing, or bad coaches decision. Note also how successful these players are in the long run. Next up... PLAY WITH HONOR.
Book #3 -- Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell
Weather in Northern Indiana...
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Blizzard of '78 -- 30 years later
Your car is ready sir...
I'm pretty sure most families have a few photos around like these as well.
Book #2 -- Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
While I do not agree with the principles of purchasing via debt I found what he has to say at the very least thought provoking and often inspiring. His persona; story is proof that the American Dream is still out there to be had.
There are many topics and points of emphasis in this book but I found two themes that returned to me as I read the text:
- Your education (whether it be in finances, management, skill development, or whatever) should never end. Continuing to add knowledge and skill as tools adds to your value.
- The goal is to stop just looking for ways to make money and to in turn look for ways to make the money you make work for you.
As I said, there are other themes but just carrying these away will give me much to ponder and work on. Another favorite author in the area of finance pointed out that people have a slaves mentality. There is no hope of ever having it different. Developing and putting to use knowledge and tools such as these can help me lead my family away from the slavery of living only paycheck to paycheck. This is one of those books that I think you have to be ready to read before it has value. When you think you may be, you should check it out.
Monday, January 28, 2008
Link Dump - Watch the Super Bowl for the game or commercials? Edition
Making Sense Of The Millenial Views
Stimulus Package - What Does It Mean For You?
“The Race for the American Mind”
Build a Home Theater PC for Less than $200 [DIY]
DIY Roll-Up Keyboard [DIY]
Build Your Own CD Stack Lamp [DIY]
At Which of These Levels Are You an Evangelist?
Twenty Myths That Keep Christians From Discussing Abortion
Grilling Wings for the Super Bowl -- mmmmmmmmmmmmm wings
Arizona State Wrestler Anthony Robles Pins Opponents on One Leg
Original American Gladiator Lace Busted for Possession of Narcotic Paraphernalia
21 Potential Ministry Partners for Your Church
Cheetah cubs who developed a soft spot for their supper
Three Little Pigs banned for offending Muslims and builders -- you can't make this stuff up
3 Weeks and counting...
The Dana Jacobson thing... my rant
- Why do we insist on demanding that those who are not Christ followers be held to the standards that we hold?
- When did it become my job to fight for Jesus? He told us that these things would happen and not to worry about it because it was all about Him.
- Do I personally care that there are people that I pass every day that are heading to a literal hell unless they respond to Christ's call?
- It's time to realize that when we act this way it only confirms the suspicions and stereotypes that most people have about Christians and the church. Look at the comments and responses to the blogs and new stories and you should get the drift.
- Would these situations be better opportunities for the Kingdom if we spent the time and energy we place on boycotts and pickets on prayer and personal discipleship?
A couple Scriptures I was reminded of:
The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that what it does is evil. -- John 7:7
Remember the words I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his master.'[b] If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the One who sent me. 22If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin. Now, however, they have no excuse for their sin. 23He who hates me hates my Father as well. 24If I had not done among them what no one else did, they would not be guilty of sin. But now they have seen these miracles, and yet they have hated both me and my Father. 25But this is to fulfill what is written in their Law: 'They hated me without reason -- John 15:20-25
"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." -- John 16:33
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Something to think on...
Game of the Week- Flight of the Hamsters
If any of you need wisdom... (Bible Journey)
I am coming to realize just how much wisdom and discernment I need to successfully live EVERY day. That is one of the reasons I am so excited about the next series we are endeavoring in my Sunday School class. We will be going through the book of James. This is one of the most practical books of the Bible for day to day life application. I am pumped about diving into how to apply these directives and even more about what our church/ community/ world would be like if we then apply them in daily living.
As part of my preparation I have been reading the entire book (all 5 chapters) every day; each day in a different translation. I will be challenging the members of the class to do the same next week as well as weekly reading "assignments". My hope is that by instilling a higher level of commitment it will lead to better discussion and interaction, which will then lead us to more complete application. I'll try to update on how that works out.
These are the translations that I have read or will be reading in the next few days.
- New King James
- NIV
- CEV
- NASB
- the Message
Any other good translations I shouldn't miss?
John Piper - Test Yourself: Football or Christ?
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Link Dump -
6 Effective Ways to Combat Boredom!
Spurgeon on Wine in the Bible
Gammons Digs Blogs - a wealth of resources for baseball fans here
Do I Have a Right to Cross an Ocean if I Won’t Even Cross My Street?
Missing Money Searches for Unclaimed Funds [Search Engines]
Make Your Own Stress Ball [DIY]
Learn to Profile People [Psychology]
Build a Basic First Aid Kit for the Road [DIY]
WARNING! DO NOT PLAY THIS GAME.... but do!
Is Feb 3 really Super Bowl Sunday?
largest swimming pool in the world
The Number of Children Aborted in the U.S. since 1973.
The Jesus Tomb Redux--the Jerusalem Conference
Depp visits children’s hospital as Captain Jack Sparrow
How Times Have Changed - Sesame Street
The E(spn) True Hollywood Story: The Brady Bunch
Friday, January 18, 2008
Link Dump -- Do you have your W2s yet? Edition
Christianity vs. Jesusanity -- The Postmodern Temptation
Top Ten Reasons Why Iraq Should Be Our 51st State
20 Reasons to Read
Bible.org Redesigned -- I have always found this site a great resource.
10 Reasons the U.S.A. Could Beat Up Canada
Flat-Screens In The Men’s Room
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY - kind of sad that this is considered a special quality in our society.
Parents and Youth Workers VCR/DVR Alert!
Best Utilize Your Tax Refund - Part 4 - check out the whole series of posts
BREAKING NEWS: Brady Contemplating Retirement - Indy fans wait in hope
Remotely Shut Down Your Computer [How To]
Keep Your Cell Phone Charged Longer [How To]
Top 10 Telephone Tricks [Lifehacker Top 10]
Seven Joy Killers In Ministry
Inward, Upward, or Outward?
Vampire Electronics
A Guide to Cutting Back When You Feel Overwhelmed
Game of the Week -- Pogo Bowl
Something to think on...
"The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because they are generally the same people."
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Link Dump -- Waiting in the Ice Bowl Revisited Edition
Your Fitness Future Foretold: 20 Predictions for 2008
Ragnarok, Recession, and Real ID
Errors and Contradictions in the Bible
Why it's important to stop what you're doing and look around...
Netflix Offers Unlimited "Watch Now" Video Streaming [Streaming Video]
Conquer a Cold with the Right Foods [Health]
Print Public Domain Books Cheaply [Books]
When is Your Worship Too Loud?
Knowing When to Tick People Off
Survey Data: How Unchurched Americans View Christianity
“Waaaaa. I’m Not Getting Fed” (Part 1) -- this looks to be a promising series
Same war, different battles
Landmarks Quiz
My results are above. See how good you area t recognizing landmarks from aerial photos. Take the quiz HERE and then post your results.
Monday, January 14, 2008
Leadership Lessons from Brett Favre
The Showdown is derailed -- Colts lose.
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Questions to ponder
1) The future leaders of the Christ following movement are still lost. What are we doing to find them?
2) The generations 22 and younger are profoundly shaped by the technological revolution of recent decades: the Internet, Cell phones, iPods, Social Networking sites. Many are capable of building personal web pages much more edgier than any ministry website. Children play on WebKinz, TyGirlz—toys that exists simultaneously in both the cyber world and physical world. How is the Gospel best inculturated in such contexts?
3) 97% of churches in North America are stagnant or declining (75%) or growing only via transfer growth (22%). How should the Christ following movement respond? Is it worth the pain and effort to transition these communities into missional centers that reach lost people or is it better to focus on on creating new faith communities that are seeped in a missional ethos from the beginning?
I would opt for the latter in most cases. Staff the 97% with “chaplain” pastors and deploy the most gifted and entrepreneurial leaders to focus on launching new communities (perhaps recruiting core mission groups) from existing bodies.
4) Given the decay of many church properties and the expense of buying new ones (particularly in urban areas), what role will the church building play in the future?
5) How will theological education be delivered in the 21st century?
Friday, January 11, 2008
Link Dump - RIP Sir Edmund Hillary Edition
How to Study the Bible - nice resource
The Minimalist’s Guide to Fighting (and Beating) Clutter Entropy
teens and social media
A two-sided battle
Sinners in the Hands of the Emergent Church
Soulforce Takes Its Campaign to the Church - this could be a huge story in the coming year.
You Know You’re Not Leading When…
Why You Should Run an Open Wireless Access Point [Ask The Readers]
Edit PDFs Online with PDFHammer [PDFs]
Watch Full-Length TV Online with Fancast [Television]
Customize Your Notes with the Circa Modular Notebook [Office Supplies Fetish]
Google 411 - A Tool You NEED to know!
New Research on the Unchurched (see Update 1 and 2 below)
Training Thursday: Is your Ministry Ready for New People?
What does a weeks worth of food look like around the world?
FuBar Demolition Tool
Shark Lovers, Unite!
Theology Matters . . . It Always Matters
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
ALL TIME CHICAGO CUBS UNIFORM NUMBER LIST
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Link Dump - It's 60 degrees in Indiana (in January) Edition
Plunger Throwing - why do I find this funny??? but I do.
Stephen Colbert on Protestantism
Willow Creek study flawed says prof
Springflex: Build Muscles While Using the Computer
Eat This Not That: Choosing the Right Foods
High school winning streak snapped after 34 years Amazing record.
NBC Partnering With Microsoft & MSN to Stream the 2008 Beijing Olympics Live
Why the world is not reached for Christ yet
Walk-Off Wild Pitch on an Intentional Walk - looks like Rick Ankiel at work
FRUCALL - A Tool You NEED to know!
Stay Healthy Year Round [Health]
LSU Using Video Games To Prepare For Ohio State -- looks like it worked!
What Barack Obama owes Jeri Ryan
The Ten Best and Worst Communicators in 2007
Practical Steps for Personal Evangelism
Kids, Consumerism & Ethical Youth Marketing
teens and social media
Monday, January 7, 2008
'08 Book #1 - Lone Survivor by Marcus Luttrell
2007 Reading/ 2008 Goals
I fell just a bit short, completing 26; several more were started when the calendar flipped (which should give me a jump on '08.)
The Breakdown of "genre" was as follows:
- 13 - Christian Living/ Ministry
- 6 - Fiction
- 3 - Biographies
- 2 - Business/ Leadership
- 2 - Other
It was a pretty good effort. The balance was about what I expected/ planned for. I just did not accomplish my goal. I recognized two times during the year that reading time became minimal at best and will try to plan accordingly in the coming year. I was tempted to keep my goal the same but in an effort to acknowledge the fact that I have some books in progress and in an effort to stretch myself I am going to set the bar at 35 BOOKS in 2008. I strive to do this not just to read for reading sake but to accomplish a few goals as well. Those are:
- Meet the challenge of being a better Christ Follower by applying the knowledge that I gain.
- Improve my writing skills through the creation of reviews for each book read.
- Become better read and rounded by adding more of the "classics" from fiction and the church into the rotation.
- Enjoy the reading process.
- Build a base of known material that can be correctly and intelligently recommend to others.
In January of 2009 we will revisit these goals and see how they went. On with the reading...
Friday, January 4, 2008
Link Dump -- Are your resolutions still intact? Edition
7 Blogging Lessons Learned From a Best-Selling Author
10 Reasons Why Pastors Avoid the Culture War
Top 10 Fitness Trends for 2008
Rob Bell: An Ex-MHBC’er Speaks
the television schedule for every college basketball game this season
How Not To Invite People To Group
AN AMERICAN'S PRAYER FOR THE NEW YEAR
Plunger Throwing
Death in Jerusalem - a funny
Book #26 - Skipping Christmas by John Grisham
While looking for something completely different than this book I came across it at the library. After noting that it was a book I had not read, a Grisham book, and short by novel standards I decided to give it a read. I am glad that I did.
The holiday movie, "Christmas with the Kranks" (which I have not personally seen) is based on this book.
The gist of the book is what many of us have thought of during our lifetimes; the idea of chucking it and blowing off Christmas. The Kranks then discover that even though there are many hassles involved with the holidays and dealing with people, relationships are far more important that personal desires.
The book is as easy as any Grisham text to read and I found it quite enjoyable; definitely recommended.
Book #25 - Going All the Way by Craig Groeschel
Thursday, January 3, 2008
New Year, Same Insanity...
I then spent a few hours in the ER Tues night with my mom. She fell and thankfully nothing is broken but she is sore and moving VERY slow. Add to the fact that with n laptop we have one computer that 5 people want to use on a dial up connection (If anyone at Verizon happens to see this, please get the phone lines upgraded in my area so I can get hi-speed!!!!!!!) and I spent basically no time online during my two days off. Plus sitting in one place for very long is uncomfortable with my back at this point. If all goes well I have the following posts that should launch in the next 36 hours...
- the final couple book reviews from '07
- a review of my reads from '07 along with my '08 goals
- a new link dump
- possibility of a few movie reviews
- NFL playoff predictions
TTFN